About Kate
Calm, strategic support for women considering separation and divorce
About Kate
Sound familiar?
From the outside, it probably looks like you’re coping.
Still parenting.
Still working.
Still trying to hold everything together.
But underneath it all, you feel exhausted.
You’re constantly overthinking and second-guessing yourself.
Trying to work out what happens if you stay, and what happens if you don’t.
You’re worried about the financial impact, your children and what life could realistically look like on the other side of this.
You don’t want or need dramatic advice, someone telling you what to do or more noise right now.
You’re looking for a calm, private space to untangle your thoughts and experienced guidance and support from someone who genuinely gets it.
You want to feel steadier, calmer and clearer about your next best steps.
And to feel less anxious, fearful and alone while you navigate your current challenges.
A different kind of support
The women I work with are smart, capable, family oriented women who are often carrying far more emotional, mental, and practical weight than anyone around them fully realises.
From the outside, it may look like they are coping.
Inside, many feel overwhelmed, emotionally exhausted, financially anxious, and unsure what comes next.
Some are quietly questioning the future of their relationship.
Others are already navigating separation, mediation, lawyers, parenting concerns, financial uncertainty, or difficult relationship dynamics.
Many are trying to avoid unnecessary stress, conflict, spiralling legal costs, and reactive decision-making wherever possible.
They want:
Clarity
Strategy
Preparation
Emotional steadiness
And they want support from someone who understands not only the emotional impact of separation, but also the practical, financial, and relational complexities that often exist beneath the surface.
Even more so when the relationship dynamic has become emotionally exhausting, controlling, unpredictable, or high-conflict.
Strategic guidance, grounded in both professional and personal experience.
Before becoming a Separation Strategist™ and Divorce Coach for Women, I worked as a lawyer and finance specialist in both Sydney and London.
Since 2015, I’ve privately supported more than 700 women worldwide navigating separation, divorce, co-parenting concerns, financial fear, emotionally difficult relationships, and the transition into single motherhood.
As a mother of three, it is a path I have also walked myself.
I understand the constant overthinking. The emotional exhaustion. The fear about the children, finances, future and what happens next.
I also understand how isolating it can feel when you don’t yet feel ready to speak openly with family, friends, or professional advisors about what’s happening behind closed doors.
My role is not to tell women what they should do.
It is to provide calm, strategic, non-judgemental guidance and support so they can think more clearly, prepare more carefully, and move through this chapter with greater clarity, steadiness, and support.
Alongside my legal and financial background, I am also trained in nervous system regulation, breathwork, meditation, movement, and numerous trauma-informed holistic wellbeing practices.
Calm. Clear. Strategic.
A calm and conscious approach to separation
I believe separation decisions should be made calmly, consciously and carefully. Not reactively.
Particularly where children, shared finances, long-term relationships, emotional exhaustion, or high-conflict dynamics are involved.
My work is centred around helping women slow the noise and emotional overwhelm down enough to think clearly again.
Not through panic.
Not through pressure.
Not through escalating conflict unnecessarily.
But through:
Clarity
Preparation
Emotional steadiness
Strategic thinking
Practical support
Whenever possible, I encourage approaches that help minimise unnecessary stress, legal costs, emotional harm, and conflict, particularly when children are involved.
Because the way separation is navigated, especially in the early stages, matters deeply.
Not only legally and financially, but emotionally, mentally, physically, and for the future wellbeing of the family as a whole.
HERE ARE SOME OF THE WAYS I CAN HELP YOU…
Guidance and support that meets you where you’re at
SELF-PACED WORKBOOK + ONLINE PROGRAM
I’m starting to question the future of my relationship
A practical workbook and accompanying guided online program to help you privately organise your thoughts and explore your options before making any big decisions.
PRE-SEPARATION HANDBOOK
I think I need to start getting my ducks in a row before I make any big decisions.
A step-by-step handbook to help you prepare quietly, organise important information, and make informed decisions.
PRIVATE 60-MINUTE STRATEGY SESSION
I’d like guidance that’s tailored to my situation
Get personalised strategy, guidance, and support that’s tailored to your unique situation.
If only someone had told me this sooner…
23 THINGS WOMEN WISH THEY KNEW BEFORE SEPARATION
Practical wisdom passed down, to help you feel better informed, more prepared and less alone.
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