Stop going around in circles

Crossroads Compass™ is designed for women who have been unhappy or uncertain in their relationship for some time and keep finding themselves wondering what to do next.

You might still love your partner and hope things can improve. You might be questioning how much longer you can keep living as you are. Or you may genuinely have no idea whether staying or leaving is the right decision.

You don’t need to be ready to separate. In fact, Crossroads Compass™ was specifically created for the stage before you have made that decision.

It gives you a private, thoughtful way to look at what has been happening in your relationship, what you need, what you have already tried, what would need to change and what your different options could mean for you.

No, and that is very deliberate. Nobody else should be making a decision this important for you.

Crossroads Compass™ doesn’t assume that separation is the answer, and it doesn’t try to persuade you to stay in a relationship that isn’t working for you either.

It helps you look honestly at your relationship and your options so you can reach the decision that feels right for you, based on your circumstances, values, needs and priorities.

Then you are exactly the kind of woman I created Crossroads Compass™ for.

When you have been thinking about the same decision for a long time, it can become difficult to separate what you know from what you fear, hope, feel guilty about or have been telling yourself.

Rather than asking you to think about it even harder, Crossroads Compass™ gives those thoughts somewhere to go.

The guided reflections and exercises help you get them out of your head, organise them and look at them from different angles, so you can begin to see more clearly what is actually keeping you stuck.

That’s completely compatible with Crossroads Compass™.

Questioning your relationship doesn’t necessarily mean you want it to end.

Part of the program helps you consider what is still good in your relationship, what you value, what you need more or less of, what you have already tried and what would genuinely need to change for the relationship to feel good for you again.

You may finish Crossroads Compass™ feeling clearer about staying and working on your relationship. You may reach a different conclusion. Either outcome is valid.

It shouldn’t.

The workbook is intentionally broken into manageable sections, and the companion online program guides you through them so you don’t have to sit down and tackle 100 pages at once.

You can do one exercise, one section or even one question at a time. You can stop when you’ve had enough and come back when you have the headspace.

There are no deadlines and no expectation that you race through it.

This is something to support you, not another job on your list.

You’ll receive the complete 100-page Crossroads Compass™ digital workbook, together with access to the companion online program where I guide you through the process in short, manageable lessons.

The workbook contains the reflections, exercises and practical worksheets you’ll use as you work through your relationship, your needs, what has and hasn’t been working, what would need to change and the possibilities ahead.

The workbook is the heart of Crossroads Compass™. The online program is there to make it easier to work through and to give you additional guidance along the way.

Most relationships are.

Crossroads Compass™ isn't based on the assumption that there is one obvious problem or one obvious answer.

You may be dealing with years of disconnection, recurring conflict, broken trust, different priorities, financial concerns, parenting pressures, resentment, loneliness or several things at once.

The purpose isn't to fit your relationship into a category. It's to help you look carefully at your circumstances and work out what matters most in deciding what comes next.

No. Crossroads Compass™ provides general educational information and personal reflection tools only. It does not provide legal advice and is not a substitute for advice from a qualified lawyer who understands your individual circumstances.

If you need advice about your legal rights, obligations or options, you should obtain independent legal advice relevant to your circumstances and jurisdiction.

No. Crossroads Compass™ is not counselling, psychotherapy, relationship therapy or couples therapy, and it is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental health condition.

It is an educational and self-reflection program designed to help you explore your relationship, organise your thoughts and consider what matters to you as you think about your future.

If you need counselling, psychological or mental health support, please seek assistance from an appropriately qualified professional.

No. Nothing within Crossroads Compass™ should be treated as medical, psychological or other health advice, diagnosis or treatment.

The program may invite you to reflect on your wellbeing and how your relationship is affecting different areas of your life, but those reflections are for educational and personal development purposes only.

For advice about your physical or mental health, please speak with an appropriately qualified health professional.

Crossroads Compass™ is a general educational program and is not a safety-planning, crisis-support or family violence service.

Some women questioning their relationships may also be experiencing domestic violence, coercive control, threats, intimidation, financial abuse or other behaviour that makes their circumstances more complex or potentially unsafe.

If this applies to you, some of the general exercises or suggestions within the program may not be appropriate for your circumstances.

Please prioritise your safety and seek individual advice and specialist support before taking action that could increase risk to you or your children.

Yes. Crossroads Compass™ is self-paced and completed privately.

You do not need to attend group calls, share your relationship with other women or discuss your answers with me.

Your workbook is for you.

You can work through it in your own time, in your own space, without having to explain or justify what you are thinking to anyone else.